Round Table Great Britain and Ireland

Best man's speech do's and don'ts


1.    Practice, practice, practice - if you can recite your speech and address your crowd with confidence, you will engage your audience more effectively.

2.    Write the speech to suit your personality - if you are a natural comedian then obviously go for gags, but if delivering a joke is not your strong suit, concentrate on something more personal and heart-felt.

3.    Speak from the heart - remember this is your best friend marrying (hopefully!) the love of their life.

4.    Share the pain – a little self-deprecation goes a long way. The crowd will be more on your side if you decide to dish the dirt on your friend.

5.    Keep it short – remember that you’re not the main event, so don’t drag it out and lose your audience. Plan about 1,000 words, which is approximately five to seven minutes.



1.    No in-jokes, swearing or smut – keep it relatively clean. Remember at a wedding there are people of all age ranges, with varying sensitivities.

2.    No ex-girlfriends/ ex-boyfriends - no one wants to know, least of all the bride!

3.    Don’t steal jokes - people will know if you’ve Googled your speech.

4.    Don’t fade away - make sure you the speech finishes strongly whether this is your best joke or your most heart-felt sentiment.

5.    Don’t drink too much - Even the greatest speech and best intentions can be ruined by a slurring, bumbling best man.


Useful Links

Best of the best – advice from the men who've been there!

Wedding speeches from the silver screen

Top 5 most overused gags

Some best man bed time reading

    Return to the Best man Homepage

    To find your local Round Table please use our club finder or call 0845 508 0000.


    Share this story

Learn More

In 2014 Round Table have provided more community Santas than any other organisation.

Not bad for a group of young men.

Know More

Ask More

Answers to our FAQs

  • We are all under 45 years old
  • All occupations welcomed
  • No religious or political affiliation
  • No we are not a darts team!!

Know More

Do More

  • More Mates
  • More Activities
  • More For Your Community
  • More Skills
  • More Contacts
  • More Opportunities
  • More More

Know More

Find More

Enter your details to find one of your local Round Tables.

Know More